Why we - women, love men
This is very ironic. I mean posting a topic like this despite the fact that life took its toll on me with relationship… I guess, this somehow gave a reason to look back why I should not regret loving a man…
Anyway, I got this post from the blof of Paulo Coelho, one of my fave author (http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2007/10/06/why-we-love-men/). In his words, “if I ever decide to write a text “why do we love women?” it would be considered politically incorrect, or typical of a Latin American macho writer, etc. Therefore, I am not going to do that. I will post the reasons that women so far have to love us, taken from different forums. And being a man ( i.e. , endangered species), I am obliged to confess that I agree with most of the items listed below..”
- We love men because they can never fake orgasms, even if they wanted to.
- Because they write poems, songs, and books in our honor.
- Because they never understand us, but they never give up.
- Because they can see beauty in women when women have long ceased to see any beauty in themselves.
- Because they come from little boys.
- Because they can churn out long, intricate, Machiavellian, or incredibly complex mathematics and physics equations, but they can be comparably clueless when it comes to women.
- Because they are incredible lovers and never rest until we’re happy.
- Because they elevate sports to religion.
- Because they’re never afraid of the dark.
- Because they don’t care how they look or if they age.
- Because they persevere in making and repairing things beyond their abilities, with the naïve self-assurance of the teenage boy who knew everything.
- Because they never wear or dream of wearing high heels.
- Because they’re always ready for sex.
- Because they’re like pomegranates: lots of inedible parts, but the juicy seeds are incredibly tasty and succulent and usually exceed your expectations.
- Because they’re afraid to go bald.
- Because you always know what they think and they always mean what they say.
- Because their biggest fear is not being a man, and for this, they need to go away from time to time.
- Because they love machines, tools, and implements with the same ferocity women love jewelry.
- Because they go to great lengths to hide, unsuccessfully, that they are frail and human.
- Because they either speak too much or not at all to that end.
- Because they always finish the food on their plat.
- Because they are brave in front of insects and mice.
- Because a well-spoken four-year old girl can reduce them to silence, and a beautiful 25-year old can reduce them to slobbering idiots.
- Because they want to be either omnivorous or ascetic, warriors or lovers, artists or generals, but nothing in-between.
- Because for them there’s no such thing as too much adrenaline.
- Because when all is said and done, they can’t live without us, no matter how hard they try.
- Because they’re truly as simple as they claim to be.
- Because they love extremes and when they go to extremes, we’re there to catch them.
- Because they’ve got that comfortable place on their shoulder that’s perfect for snuggling into while we fall asleep.
- Because they are tender they when they cry, and how seldom they do it.
- Because what they lack in talk, they tend to make up for in action.
- Because they make excellent companions when driving through rough neighborhoods or walking past dark alleys.
- Because they really love their moms, and they remind us of our dads.
- Because they never care what their horoscope, their mother-in-law, nor the neighbors say.
- Because they rarely lie about their age, their weight, or their clothing size.
- Because they give great hugs, ( and always melt our hearts when a sweet “I love you” is added)
- Because they have an uncanny ability to look deeply into our eyes and connect with our heart, even when we don’t want them to.
- Because we love them, and only a man would think that requires an explanation.
Now, have you found your reason why’d you loved and still loving your man?…
